A Valentine’s Day Reflection on Growth and Love
Friend, I am going to be vulnerable here today! Does Erasing the Message Mean Erasing the Love, indeed! Let me take you back to a time before Simply Sunni was what it is today. It’s hard to believe, but there was a point in my blogging journey when I didn’t fully understand the power of a niche. I wrote posts that came straight from the heart with messages that mattered deeply to me. But these messages were without a clear direction or alignment with the target audience I now know I’m meant to serve.
As Valentine’s Day approaches, I’ve been reflecting on how love isn’t just a one-day celebration—it’s an ongoing journey. It requires growth, understanding, and learning to communicate better with those around us. The same can be said about blogging. Understanding your niche is like learning how to speak the love language of your readers. It’s about meeting them where they are and offering content that truly resonates.
Why I Share “A Silly Motherhood Question” with My Readers
One post in particular stands out to me from those early days. “Does Erasing the Message Erase the Love?” and it’s a message of love and communication. While it may not align perfectly with my brand’s focus today, its core message of connection is timeless, especially during this season of love.
When I reread this post, I’m reminded of how far I’ve come—not just as a blogger, but as a communicator and a creator. I’ve learned to craft content that speaks directly to my readers, helping them feel seen, safe, and empowered (all while sprinkling it with a bit of sunshine, of course!).
As you revisit this post with me, I hope you’ll find encouragement to reflect on your own journey—whether it’s in blogging, relationships, or any area of growth.
So… here it is!
A Silly Motherhood Question
To make any sense out of the title of this post, I will need to give you some background information.
Background Information
My name is Sunni, and I am a mother of 4 adult children, mother-in-law to 3, and Gigi to one grandson and a granddaughter on the way. Our home has no shortage of love. However, I cling to every morsel that falls from their mouths (or markers in this case).
The Story
As I came in the front door from being away with my husband for our 29th anniversary weekend at the lake, my daughter had just walked. She was on her way to her own vacation.
As you can see, she left a sweet note on my calendar.
Now, for those who crave calendars and order, do not be worried. There were only 2 days left in the month, so Shelby’s drawing didn’t interfere with my planning! (haha!)
The Problem
Getting back to my original question… does erasing the message erase the love? I know that is a silly question, but I truly found myself pondering that very thing. (Told you I hang on.) So here is what went on in my crazy head on July 1st…
- Can I erase it?
- Will it hurt her feelings?
- Does she know how much it means?
- Does she know how much I cherish her?
- Do ALL my kids know how much I cherish them?
- Do my kids-in-law know how much I love them?
- What about my precious grandson? Will he always know?
- Should I just forget about the rest of the months?
- Will July have its feelings hurt?
- Will it stay hot forever if I stay in June?
- Okay, tell her now you love the drawing.
- Did I show my husband?
- Can I show him again? I will anyhow.
And so on and so on… in typical mom brain fashion.
The Conclusion
My decision was just this… take a picture and write about it, then call Shelby. So, here I am at my computer again, rambling about my “mom brain” and all the silly things that flood it.
I hope you laughed and maybe even identified… or else I may be certifiably silly. The world may never know!
-SimplySunni
Growth, Love, and Lessons Learned
So, what did I learn from revisiting this piece? A few things, actually:
- The Importance of Growth: Every post, no matter how imperfect, is a stepping stone toward your future success. Never discount where you’ve been.
- The Value of Authenticity: Even if this post wasn’t niche-perfect, its authenticity connected with readers. Never underestimate the power of a heartfelt message.
- The Beauty of Reflection: Taking time to revisit old work can inspire new ideas and remind you of the progress you’ve made.
Friend, whether you’re reflecting on past relationships or past blog posts this Valentine’s Day, I encourage you to embrace the growth you’ve experienced. And if you’re just starting your blogging journey, don’t be afraid to take those first imperfect steps—you’ll be amazed at how far they’ll take you.
Thank you for joining me on this journey down memory lane. I’d love to hear your thoughts: How has your understanding of love—or blogging—evolved over time? Let’s sprinkle this season with sunshine and stories of growth. ✨
